Damn It, Stop Focusing on Your Weaknesses. You Have Strengths.

Your gifts lead you to your soul purpose.

I know what you’re telling yourself:
“I’m not good at this.”
“I’m not good enough.”

Let me stop you right there. That’s the kind of BS that keeps you stuck in a loop, constantly scanning yourself for flaws and focusing on what’s not working. And honey, trust me—you didn’t come up with this on your own. You were taught to think this way. Conditioned.
Other people were scanning and judging you long before you ever knew how to judge yourself.

I remember being told I wasn’t good at Latin. And let’s be honest—Latin is as dead as it gets. The grammar alone nearly sucked the life out of me. But it was part of the curriculum in grades 7 and 8, and my parents spent a small fortune on extra tutoring. Yep, I’m that old—back when parents paid in cash and got no receipt. Just a prayer and a Latin textbook.

What did that kind of focus do to us?
We grew up being told to fix our weaknesses instead of feeding our strengths. And the damage?
Oh boy. Mamma mia. Holy moly.

Now imagine if we had been supported in what we loved to do as kids. Imagine if someone had said, “Wow, you’re really good at that—let’s build on it.”
The confidence. The depth. The joy of growing into not just a knowledgeable person, but a passionate expert.

I explored my natural gift—mediumship—in my mid-30s. And even then, it came wrapped in self-judgment. Saying out loud, “I’m a medium” took more courage than I like to admit. This was before the TV shows, before people had a clue what that even meant.
Even today, some people avoid eye contact, like I might see something.
You and I know—it doesn’t work like that.

But this is what happens when we look at our talents later in life.
We realize we’ve spent years bending and twisting ourselves to fit in.
And let’s be honest—it never really worked.

Now here we are.
A little older, hopefully a little wiser, and finally ready to listen to our soul.
Your uniqueness is your path.
It holds your joy. Your depth. Your purpose.

But choosing what makes you happy isn’t always easy. Especially when you've spent years focused on the outside world, checking off everyone else’s to-do list.
You're drained. There’s no space left for you.

This is where I come in.

In a loving, grounded, and intuitive way, I help you shift the focus back to you—step by step—so you can reconnect with your soul and live from your truth.

And let’s be real: if you’ve read this far, your soul is already knocking. It’s ready to be heard.

You weren’t born to bend and break.
You were born to live, to thrive, to stand out.

Fitting in? That’s the old you.
It’s time to come home to the real you.